Last year towards the end of April, beginning of May, I started working out again at the YMCA. I've reached the point now where I look forward to going- most of the time- because I like the benefits of exercise. Mostly, I enjoy that I sleep better on nights that I exercise. It's a nice perk.
Usually, I use the elliptical. But lately I've taken to using the treadmill more and actually making the attempt to run. I normally just use a really steep incline and walk quickly. But recently I've began using no incline but running. I actually ran for 10 straight minutes the other day- a personal record. I'm really proud of myself for even trying. I typically stop running and switch back to walking after just 2 or 3 minutes. Again, I'm really proud of myself for trying.
But here's the really funny part. If I go work out on Saturdays, I tend to go first thing in the morning. If I go throughout the week, I'll go after work. I've attempted to run both times. Apparently I can only run for lengthy periods of time on Saturday mornings. Random I know, and there's likely no correlation, just felt it was worth mentioning.
Howie's guessing that within 5 years I'll want to run a marathon. At this point I doubt that, but who knows? I suppose we'll find out!
So I'm sure a whole blog post on when I'm able to run isn't that interesting, but, nonetheless, it's now a documented part of my life. Here's to keeping up with my exercise habit in the new year- at least this month I'm going to get a free long-sleeved t shirt courtesy of the YMCA for committing to exercise at least three times a week over the past month. Good times.
Monday, December 13, 2010
Thursday, December 9, 2010
The Beauty of Christmas
Christmas is one of my favorite times of year. I love curling up on the couch to watch all my Christmas favorites. One of my absolute favorite Christmas specials is A Charlie Brown Christmas. I know that most Christmas movies focus on Santa. I'm fine with that. Those movies are good too. Catch phrases like "you'll shoot your eye out" never seem to grow old. But I know that there is so much more to Christmas than Santa and gifts. Which is why I'm such a fan of A Charlie Brown Christmas. They actually share the exact reason we celebrate. What amazes me most is that this is such a timeless Christmas special, that never grows old. This is one you see year after year, generation after generation enjoying. How awesome, that every year, we can pretty much count on seeing A Charlie Brown Christmas in the Christmas special TV line up - and know that the hundreds of thousands of people watching it will have the opportunity to hear the true meaning of Christmas.
Enjoy:
Enjoy:
Thursday, November 11, 2010
I Celebrate the Day
I absolutely LOVE Christmas music. I'd probably listen to it year-round, but then I think it would lose what truly makes it special- that being the celebration of Jesus' birth. I enjoy all the non-religious Christmas songs just as much as everyone else, but one song that I'm falling in love with this year (b/c yes, I am unashamedly listening to Christmas music already, and have been for a little over a week now) is Relient K's "I Celebrate the Day" from their cd "Let it snow baby, let it reindeer."
Here are the lyrics:
And with this Christmas wish is missed
The point I could convey
If only I could find the words to say to let You know how much You've touched my life
Because here is where You're finding me, in the exact same place as New Year's eve
And from a lack of my persistency
We're less than half as close as I want to be
And the first time
That You opened Your eyes did You realize that You would be my Savior
And the first breath that left Your lips
Did You know that it would change this world forever
And so this Christmas I'll compare the things I felt in prior years
To what this midnight made so clear
That You have come to meet me here
To look back and think that
This baby would one day save me
In the hope that what You did
That you were born so I might live
To look back and think that
This baby would one day save me
And I, I celebrate the day
That You were born to die
So I could one day pray for You to save my life
Wow! How could you not celebrate the day of Jesus' birth after reading this? Can you even imagine what Mary must have been experiencing at Jesus's birth? Knowing that He did come to save everyone and that He would in fact change the world FOREVER.
This song really causes me to take a step back and evaluate where I am and how I'm walking with the Lord. I'm starting to realize that though my job is challenging at times, God is using it to satisfy my missions-oriented heart in a way that I never imagined. I've also started realizing that while I cannot always share God at work with my clients, I have been able to live out my faith in a way that they recognize it, and subsequently bring up God (which means I can then talk with them about Him). So of course I have many reasons to "celebrate the day".
Do you? Are you celebrating the day?
Here are the lyrics:
And with this Christmas wish is missed
The point I could convey
If only I could find the words to say to let You know how much You've touched my life
Because here is where You're finding me, in the exact same place as New Year's eve
And from a lack of my persistency
We're less than half as close as I want to be
And the first time
That You opened Your eyes did You realize that You would be my Savior
And the first breath that left Your lips
Did You know that it would change this world forever
And so this Christmas I'll compare the things I felt in prior years
To what this midnight made so clear
That You have come to meet me here
To look back and think that
This baby would one day save me
In the hope that what You did
That you were born so I might live
To look back and think that
This baby would one day save me
And I, I celebrate the day
That You were born to die
So I could one day pray for You to save my life
Wow! How could you not celebrate the day of Jesus' birth after reading this? Can you even imagine what Mary must have been experiencing at Jesus's birth? Knowing that He did come to save everyone and that He would in fact change the world FOREVER.
This song really causes me to take a step back and evaluate where I am and how I'm walking with the Lord. I'm starting to realize that though my job is challenging at times, God is using it to satisfy my missions-oriented heart in a way that I never imagined. I've also started realizing that while I cannot always share God at work with my clients, I have been able to live out my faith in a way that they recognize it, and subsequently bring up God (which means I can then talk with them about Him). So of course I have many reasons to "celebrate the day".
Do you? Are you celebrating the day?
Monday, October 11, 2010
Wonderful Grace of Jesus
"Wonderful grace of Jesus, greater than all our sin...Wonderful the matchless grace of Jesus,Deeper than the mighty rolling sea;Higher than the mountain, sparkling like a fountain,All sufficient grace for even me;Broader than the scope of my transgressions,Greater far than all my sin and shame;O magnify the precious Name of Jesus,Praise His Name!"
Anyone who has ever attended Gospel Rally at MACU or has been a student there, is probably very familiar with this song. It's a Gospel Rally staple, so much so that I remember current students having to practice it during chapel in the days before the rally.
We sang this at church yesterday and while singing, the events of last week kept playing through my mind. I realize that I am not currently attending MACU, nor did I know the student who died in the shooting, but my heart has been breaking in sadness and shock. It's a little unnerving to think that a place I once called home (for four very good years) became a crime scene within mere minutes. It's a little unnerving to know that a place I once thought to be so safe, is not so safe anymore. It's different now. Change is good, but this change, will most definitely take time to process. It was truly a blessing to attend last week's memorial, and to be able to share hugs and encouragement with those at MACU. MACU, and the current students/staff and impacted families are on my heart and in my prayers.
But back to the song. It's amazing to me, that even in the midst of tragedy, God's grace rings out, boldly, as the song proclaims. God can and will overcome EVERYTHING, and in the process will aide His followers to do the same. How blessed we are. I can't imagine a greater gift.
Last week God led me to Psalm 32. I loved it so much I'll likely post on it again soon, but verse 7 stood out like a blinking sign in the middle of the night.
"God's my island hideaway,
keeps danger far from the shore,
throws garlands of hosannas around my neck. " (MSG)
"You are my hiding place;
you will protect me from trouble
and surround me with songs of deliverance." (NIV)
What a beautiful message! God is our refuge and our place to go when we're scared, lonely, sad...whatever it may be. And to top it off He protects us and surrounds us with deliverance!
Anyone who has ever attended Gospel Rally at MACU or has been a student there, is probably very familiar with this song. It's a Gospel Rally staple, so much so that I remember current students having to practice it during chapel in the days before the rally.
We sang this at church yesterday and while singing, the events of last week kept playing through my mind. I realize that I am not currently attending MACU, nor did I know the student who died in the shooting, but my heart has been breaking in sadness and shock. It's a little unnerving to think that a place I once called home (for four very good years) became a crime scene within mere minutes. It's a little unnerving to know that a place I once thought to be so safe, is not so safe anymore. It's different now. Change is good, but this change, will most definitely take time to process. It was truly a blessing to attend last week's memorial, and to be able to share hugs and encouragement with those at MACU. MACU, and the current students/staff and impacted families are on my heart and in my prayers.
But back to the song. It's amazing to me, that even in the midst of tragedy, God's grace rings out, boldly, as the song proclaims. God can and will overcome EVERYTHING, and in the process will aide His followers to do the same. How blessed we are. I can't imagine a greater gift.
Last week God led me to Psalm 32. I loved it so much I'll likely post on it again soon, but verse 7 stood out like a blinking sign in the middle of the night.
"God's my island hideaway,
keeps danger far from the shore,
throws garlands of hosannas around my neck. " (MSG)
"You are my hiding place;
you will protect me from trouble
and surround me with songs of deliverance." (NIV)
What a beautiful message! God is our refuge and our place to go when we're scared, lonely, sad...whatever it may be. And to top it off He protects us and surrounds us with deliverance!
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Hope
"Ultimately our gift to the world around us is hope. Not blind hope that pretends everything is fine and refuses to acknowledge how things are. But the kind of hope that comes from staring pain and suffering right in the eyes and refusing to believe that this is all there is. It is what we all need -- hope that comes from from going around suffering but from going through it."
~Velvet Elvis by Rob
As a Christian, I definitely have hope -- and the assurance that I get to spend eternity in Heaven with My Lord. That's exciting stuff. But as Rob Bell states, hope is a part of the Christian (and non-Christian) walk. His words remind me that God intends for us to learn and enjoy not just the pleasant, joy-filled moments, but also those that bring on sadness, anger, suffering, etc.
But we are a chosen people -- chosen by God Himself. Check out 1 Peter 2.
~Velvet Elvis by Rob
As a Christian, I definitely have hope -- and the assurance that I get to spend eternity in Heaven with My Lord. That's exciting stuff. But as Rob Bell states, hope is a part of the Christian (and non-Christian) walk. His words remind me that God intends for us to learn and enjoy not just the pleasant, joy-filled moments, but also those that bring on sadness, anger, suffering, etc.
But we are a chosen people -- chosen by God Himself. Check out 1 Peter 2.
Monday, August 30, 2010
Growing Pains
This past summer I found myself in somewhat of a "spiritual slump." Hence my previous posts on my 30 day thankfulness challenge. God definitely used that, but I was still hungering for more. One thing I did was start using my women's study Bible again, starting in the New Testament.
Here's one of the many things that, though I've read it before, really stood out to me this time:
"Therefore we do not lose heart. Thought outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
There was also the following story:
A grandmother was trying to get her two granddaughters to stop playing with their toys and come to the dinner table. The grandma called their names, but still they kept playing, so she got down on the floor so she could look them in their eyes. Once she had their attention she let them know it was time for dinner, and together they went to the table. The commentary that followed is this:
"As I walked with them, I thought about having to go to all that trouble, to physically scoot down low to get the attention of my granddaughters. It was then I realized that this is exactly what Jesus did for me. God had a wonderful feast prepared for us in heaven and he called his people to come and eat and enjoy! But most often, caught up in their own little dramas, they ignored his call. So, in the form of His Son, Jesus "scooted down low" and became one of us. Why? To get our attention, to meet us eye to eye- to take us by the hand and lead us to the feast"
And then I started going to a new study on Wednesday night and this really stood out to me in the book we're reading:
"As much as we want God to explain himself to us, His creation, we are in no place to demand that He give an account to us" Francis Chan in Crazy Love
I started noticing a theme....one that spoke loudly of growth- growth in my walk with God, growth within myself, and growth in learning how God works in and around us. He's willing to do so much for me. So why is it so hard to do so much for Him? Growth is REALLY hard sometimes, but completely worth it in the end. My hope is that I never stop growing in the Lord, but that He'll continue to put in me the desire NOT to settle with complacency, but one that wants to learn more daily.
One thing I've started doing is really trying to focus on God's word when I read...that's where I've been learning most these days and it's definitely been a blessing.
Here's one of the many things that, though I've read it before, really stood out to me this time:
"Therefore we do not lose heart. Thought outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal." 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
There was also the following story:
A grandmother was trying to get her two granddaughters to stop playing with their toys and come to the dinner table. The grandma called their names, but still they kept playing, so she got down on the floor so she could look them in their eyes. Once she had their attention she let them know it was time for dinner, and together they went to the table. The commentary that followed is this:
"As I walked with them, I thought about having to go to all that trouble, to physically scoot down low to get the attention of my granddaughters. It was then I realized that this is exactly what Jesus did for me. God had a wonderful feast prepared for us in heaven and he called his people to come and eat and enjoy! But most often, caught up in their own little dramas, they ignored his call. So, in the form of His Son, Jesus "scooted down low" and became one of us. Why? To get our attention, to meet us eye to eye- to take us by the hand and lead us to the feast"
And then I started going to a new study on Wednesday night and this really stood out to me in the book we're reading:
"As much as we want God to explain himself to us, His creation, we are in no place to demand that He give an account to us" Francis Chan in Crazy Love
I started noticing a theme....one that spoke loudly of growth- growth in my walk with God, growth within myself, and growth in learning how God works in and around us. He's willing to do so much for me. So why is it so hard to do so much for Him? Growth is REALLY hard sometimes, but completely worth it in the end. My hope is that I never stop growing in the Lord, but that He'll continue to put in me the desire NOT to settle with complacency, but one that wants to learn more daily.
One thing I've started doing is really trying to focus on God's word when I read...that's where I've been learning most these days and it's definitely been a blessing.
Sunday, August 8, 2010
Thankfulness
Day 30 of 30:
I've spent the past month purposefully blogging about things, people, situations, thoughts, and scriptures that I'm thankful for. Today, as I wrap up this challenge that I gave myself, I am thankful that, in the past month I've found myself more often turning my thoughts to what I'm thankful for, instead of what I'm not thankful for. Yes, I've still complained, gotten frustrated, and not liked certain things, etc. that have happened but I have noticed an increase in my ability to be more thankful. For that, I'm, you guessed it, thankful.
From time to time I may still choose to blog about things I'm thankful for, but for now, you won't get to read about my daily thanksgivings. Instead, I'll likely resort to my sporadic blog postings on whatever happens to be on my mind when I get the urge to type up something.
I've spent the past month purposefully blogging about things, people, situations, thoughts, and scriptures that I'm thankful for. Today, as I wrap up this challenge that I gave myself, I am thankful that, in the past month I've found myself more often turning my thoughts to what I'm thankful for, instead of what I'm not thankful for. Yes, I've still complained, gotten frustrated, and not liked certain things, etc. that have happened but I have noticed an increase in my ability to be more thankful. For that, I'm, you guessed it, thankful.
From time to time I may still choose to blog about things I'm thankful for, but for now, you won't get to read about my daily thanksgivings. Instead, I'll likely resort to my sporadic blog postings on whatever happens to be on my mind when I get the urge to type up something.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Is the grass always greener?
Day 29 of 30:
I've been thinking a lot today about the phrase "the grass is always greener." I wonder how often this is actually true? Wanting something, getting what we wanted, and it's actually as good as we expected/wanted/needed? Probably not, since usually, this is a phrase reserved for things we likely don't need or aren't yet ready for. For example, you see your neighbor has a new car, and you think "I really could use a new car too b/c [insert lame reason here]." So you get the new car (or tv, etc.) and end up with payments, buyers remorse, etc.
Thankfully though, with God, the grass is ALWAYS greener. I was reading this morning about Saul and his conversion in Acts 9. For someone who had always persecuted Christians, Saul likely never looked over the fence at the Christian's "green grass." Yet there was a bright green field of grass awaiting him. Upon converting, Saul led many to Christ, and he finally understood what many before him believed- that Jesus really is God and Savior. I'm so thankful that God has given us something to long for, and that by choosing to include Him, it's always worth our time, effort, energy, etc.
I've been thinking a lot today about the phrase "the grass is always greener." I wonder how often this is actually true? Wanting something, getting what we wanted, and it's actually as good as we expected/wanted/needed? Probably not, since usually, this is a phrase reserved for things we likely don't need or aren't yet ready for. For example, you see your neighbor has a new car, and you think "I really could use a new car too b/c [insert lame reason here]." So you get the new car (or tv, etc.) and end up with payments, buyers remorse, etc.
Thankfully though, with God, the grass is ALWAYS greener. I was reading this morning about Saul and his conversion in Acts 9. For someone who had always persecuted Christians, Saul likely never looked over the fence at the Christian's "green grass." Yet there was a bright green field of grass awaiting him. Upon converting, Saul led many to Christ, and he finally understood what many before him believed- that Jesus really is God and Savior. I'm so thankful that God has given us something to long for, and that by choosing to include Him, it's always worth our time, effort, energy, etc.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Friday nights
Day 28 of 30:
I'm really thankful for Friday nights. Usually (on a non-vacation week) it means the end of a work week for me. It means Howie isn't working late, and that we have the whole evening together. Tonight we had dinner and we're getting ready to play a game while we watch Netflix. Sometimes we have date nights. No matter what we end up doing, I enjoy it, since it's time I get to spend with Howie. I really treasure the nights neither of us work, since Howie works late a couple nights each week, and I work late one night a week.
Happy Friday!!
I'm really thankful for Friday nights. Usually (on a non-vacation week) it means the end of a work week for me. It means Howie isn't working late, and that we have the whole evening together. Tonight we had dinner and we're getting ready to play a game while we watch Netflix. Sometimes we have date nights. No matter what we end up doing, I enjoy it, since it's time I get to spend with Howie. I really treasure the nights neither of us work, since Howie works late a couple nights each week, and I work late one night a week.
Happy Friday!!
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Small Things
Day 27 of 30:
Today I:
*Got to spend the morning with my husband before he went to work
*Picked up more books from the library and spent quite a bit of time reading
*Had coffee with a good friend
*Grocery shopped
*Ironed my husband's work shirts
Some of these activities are daily things, others are not. But I'm thankful for the opportunity to do all of them. I enjoy being a wife, doing things like shopping for groceries and ironing shirts. I love the role God has given me in being Howie's wife. I'm also thankful for opportunities to relax by reading or visiting with a friend. Really, it's the little things that mean the most to me. Mornings with my husband before work, doing things around our home, spending time with friends.
Today I:
*Got to spend the morning with my husband before he went to work
*Picked up more books from the library and spent quite a bit of time reading
*Had coffee with a good friend
*Grocery shopped
*Ironed my husband's work shirts
Some of these activities are daily things, others are not. But I'm thankful for the opportunity to do all of them. I enjoy being a wife, doing things like shopping for groceries and ironing shirts. I love the role God has given me in being Howie's wife. I'm also thankful for opportunities to relax by reading or visiting with a friend. Really, it's the little things that mean the most to me. Mornings with my husband before work, doing things around our home, spending time with friends.
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Venezuelan coffee cup
Day 26 of 30:
This morning I decided to make a cup of coffee (albiet instant, but that's all we had) and use my Venezuelan coffee cup. Pretty much anytime I drink coffee it reminds me of Venezuela, as that's where I first really started drinking it. Venezuelans (at least the ones I spent all my time with in the 3 times I've been there) drink a LOT of coffee. I have many great memories of the summer I lived in VE and the other two times I visited. It's a beautiful country with some wonderful people. I've made some lasting friendships with people there. I still email back and forth with a dear friend, Barbara, who is Venezuelan. Between he two of us and a mix of spanish and english, we do pretty well.
Back to the coffee cup. It's tiny. It looks so delicate with the hand-painting. I think that's how our faith is sometimes. Having faith is such a huge thing, believing in God when we can't see Him, but trusting He's there and trusting in His power. But we're just so small, and faith can be a delicate thing- it has to be maintained with care (prayer, studying the Bible, fellowship with other believers). But our faith is obviously much larger than a small coffee cup- it has to be. The mug though always reminds me of the faith and trust I had to have in order to live in another country, especially one that spoke a different language. It reminds me of all that God taught me while I was there. I'm thankful for the memories, the people, and the lessons learned.
This morning I decided to make a cup of coffee (albiet instant, but that's all we had) and use my Venezuelan coffee cup. Pretty much anytime I drink coffee it reminds me of Venezuela, as that's where I first really started drinking it. Venezuelans (at least the ones I spent all my time with in the 3 times I've been there) drink a LOT of coffee. I have many great memories of the summer I lived in VE and the other two times I visited. It's a beautiful country with some wonderful people. I've made some lasting friendships with people there. I still email back and forth with a dear friend, Barbara, who is Venezuelan. Between he two of us and a mix of spanish and english, we do pretty well.
Back to the coffee cup. It's tiny. It looks so delicate with the hand-painting. I think that's how our faith is sometimes. Having faith is such a huge thing, believing in God when we can't see Him, but trusting He's there and trusting in His power. But we're just so small, and faith can be a delicate thing- it has to be maintained with care (prayer, studying the Bible, fellowship with other believers). But our faith is obviously much larger than a small coffee cup- it has to be. The mug though always reminds me of the faith and trust I had to have in order to live in another country, especially one that spoke a different language. It reminds me of all that God taught me while I was there. I'm thankful for the memories, the people, and the lessons learned.
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Rest
Day 25 of 30:
Matthew 11:27-29 (New International Version)
27"All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.
28"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
I've been tired lately. The culprit? Stress @ work. It's not a bad job at all, just one full of unexpected challenges and adventures. But recent weeks have been hard, and to say my vacation came at a perfect time would be a HUGE understatement. But Jesus knows that we need to rest- our minds, hearts, bodies, spirit...all of it. One thing I'm thankful for is God's timing- He knew I'd need a break this week and He knew just the things to provide me with refreshment. He also gave me a husband who knows how hard it is for me to stop going & thinking but who continues to find ways to encourage me to rest or stop to have some fun.
Basically, what I'm saying here is YAY! for vacation and rest and most of all, knowing that God is always there, to help carry my burdens (and to share in the joys!)
Matthew 11:27-29 (New International Version)
27"All things have been committed to me by my Father. No one knows the Son except the Father, and no one knows the Father except the Son and those to whom the Son chooses to reveal him.
28"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
I've been tired lately. The culprit? Stress @ work. It's not a bad job at all, just one full of unexpected challenges and adventures. But recent weeks have been hard, and to say my vacation came at a perfect time would be a HUGE understatement. But Jesus knows that we need to rest- our minds, hearts, bodies, spirit...all of it. One thing I'm thankful for is God's timing- He knew I'd need a break this week and He knew just the things to provide me with refreshment. He also gave me a husband who knows how hard it is for me to stop going & thinking but who continues to find ways to encourage me to rest or stop to have some fun.
Basically, what I'm saying here is YAY! for vacation and rest and most of all, knowing that God is always there, to help carry my burdens (and to share in the joys!)
Monday, August 2, 2010
Our 2nd Anniversary
Day 24 of 30:
About this exact time two years ago Howie and I said "I do" on east campus at RBC. I'm so thankful that the Lord brought Howie into my life not only as my husband, but also as my best friend. He's amazing. He makes my life better and he brings me joy. I'm thankful for the two years we've had and all the many more the Lord will give us.
Today we celebrated with krispy kreme donuts (if you're familiar with our wedding, we had a pyramid of donuts instead of cake since it was a morning wedding).
Here's one of my favorite pictures from one of my favorite days:
About this exact time two years ago Howie and I said "I do" on east campus at RBC. I'm so thankful that the Lord brought Howie into my life not only as my husband, but also as my best friend. He's amazing. He makes my life better and he brings me joy. I'm thankful for the two years we've had and all the many more the Lord will give us.
Today we celebrated with krispy kreme donuts (if you're familiar with our wedding, we had a pyramid of donuts instead of cake since it was a morning wedding).
Here's one of my favorite pictures from one of my favorite days:
Sunday, August 1, 2010
A birthday and an anniversary
Day 23 of 30:
Today I'm thankful for a couple of things. First, it's my husband's birthday, so that's exciting. It's also my parent's anniversary. They've been married 18 years and I'm thankful for the positive examples they've set for me over the years on how to have a God-filled marriage.
Once again I'm thankful too for our Sunday School class. It challenges me and I love the discussions our class engages in each week. The closing verse we read today really stood out:
Do not withhold good from those who deserve it,
when it is in your power to act.
~Proverbs 3:27 (NIV)
We studied in Proverbs today about giving and someone in class suggested we read this verse. I'm sure I've read it before, but this time it really stood out. My parents always set a positive example of giving...time, money, resources...whatever. My husband has a heart for giving as well and I know that my heart for giving, while most definitely of the Lord, is a result of my parents teaching. It's also a reason why I love my husband so much- because he too loves the Lord enough to follow God's teachings on giving.
Today I'm thankful for a couple of things. First, it's my husband's birthday, so that's exciting. It's also my parent's anniversary. They've been married 18 years and I'm thankful for the positive examples they've set for me over the years on how to have a God-filled marriage.
Once again I'm thankful too for our Sunday School class. It challenges me and I love the discussions our class engages in each week. The closing verse we read today really stood out:
Do not withhold good from those who deserve it,
when it is in your power to act.
~Proverbs 3:27 (NIV)
We studied in Proverbs today about giving and someone in class suggested we read this verse. I'm sure I've read it before, but this time it really stood out. My parents always set a positive example of giving...time, money, resources...whatever. My husband has a heart for giving as well and I know that my heart for giving, while most definitely of the Lord, is a result of my parents teaching. It's also a reason why I love my husband so much- because he too loves the Lord enough to follow God's teachings on giving.
Favorite places
Day 22 of 30:
(posted for yesterday, since we got home late)
There are soooo many things to be thankful for today. It was just a really good day. Howie and I spent part of the afternoon in Elizabeth City, where we both went to college. We went to meet my parents for dinner, who were in the area this weekend, and E-city is a good halfway mark.
But before meeting them we went to East Campus, which is part of RBC. This was the location of our wedding. It was fun going back there, especially since our anniversary is Aug. 2. We also went to Waterfront Park...also special to us for many reasons. That's where we took a walk to the day we started dating. And it's where we met the morning of our wedding to share our first kiss. I really just love E-city.
East Campus:
Where we said "I Do":
Waterfront Park:
I'm also thankful for dinner with my parents. We don't get to see either of our families very often, so dinner, short as it was, meant a lot.
Overall, it was a great Saturday and good start to our vacation.
(posted for yesterday, since we got home late)
There are soooo many things to be thankful for today. It was just a really good day. Howie and I spent part of the afternoon in Elizabeth City, where we both went to college. We went to meet my parents for dinner, who were in the area this weekend, and E-city is a good halfway mark.
But before meeting them we went to East Campus, which is part of RBC. This was the location of our wedding. It was fun going back there, especially since our anniversary is Aug. 2. We also went to Waterfront Park...also special to us for many reasons. That's where we took a walk to the day we started dating. And it's where we met the morning of our wedding to share our first kiss. I really just love E-city.
East Campus:
Where we said "I Do":
Waterfront Park:
I'm also thankful for dinner with my parents. We don't get to see either of our families very often, so dinner, short as it was, meant a lot.
Overall, it was a great Saturday and good start to our vacation.
Friday, July 30, 2010
Vacation!
Day 21 of 30:
One word: VACATION!!!! For the first time ever, I get a week, paid, for vacation! It's a nice perk that comes along with the job I have. I've already taken a long weekend this summer, and I have another weekend coming up in September. It's nice. I didn't have to negotiate any deals to get time off, or trade shifts with anyone, I just asked, and next thing I know I've got the signed approval from all the people at work who make my vacation dreams a reality. I'm just so thankful for this much needed break from work.
But here's the best part. Howie's got vacation too!! We'll have 5 whole days off together. We haven't had that much time off all at once since we got married and went on our honeymoon. Speaking of, Monday is our 2 year anniversary. You can bet that will be at the top of my "what I'm thankful for list" in just a few days!
One word: VACATION!!!! For the first time ever, I get a week, paid, for vacation! It's a nice perk that comes along with the job I have. I've already taken a long weekend this summer, and I have another weekend coming up in September. It's nice. I didn't have to negotiate any deals to get time off, or trade shifts with anyone, I just asked, and next thing I know I've got the signed approval from all the people at work who make my vacation dreams a reality. I'm just so thankful for this much needed break from work.
But here's the best part. Howie's got vacation too!! We'll have 5 whole days off together. We haven't had that much time off all at once since we got married and went on our honeymoon. Speaking of, Monday is our 2 year anniversary. You can bet that will be at the top of my "what I'm thankful for list" in just a few days!
work training
Day 20 of 30:
(This is for yesterday, as I was not able to post last night)
Yesterday I went to a training for work on the fair housing act. I didn't really understand it all that much before I went, especially how it impacts my clients. By the end, I was still somewhat confused. There's quite simply, a lot that is involved in the fair housing act, and all that goes with it, makes it harder for me to grasp. However, I am thankful that I had this opportunity to attend. There were a lot of good questions, and now I know more than I did before. Now, I have a better idea how to assist my clients as they exit the program, and I have once again, been able to broaden my network, which is also something to be thankful for.
(This is for yesterday, as I was not able to post last night)
Yesterday I went to a training for work on the fair housing act. I didn't really understand it all that much before I went, especially how it impacts my clients. By the end, I was still somewhat confused. There's quite simply, a lot that is involved in the fair housing act, and all that goes with it, makes it harder for me to grasp. However, I am thankful that I had this opportunity to attend. There were a lot of good questions, and now I know more than I did before. Now, I have a better idea how to assist my clients as they exit the program, and I have once again, been able to broaden my network, which is also something to be thankful for.
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Psalm 8
Day 19 of 30:
I was reading Psalm 8 this past week and all in my Bible around this passage I have lots of notes and other scripture references. I first really studied this passage back in college in a women's Sunday school class at the church I attended. Mostly, the class was made up of women who were older than me, I was one of just a couple college age women in the class. But the wisdom these ladies had to offer was invaluable- so was the teaching I got from the Bible. What stands out to me most in Psalm 8 is how much God values each and every person. God is so mindful of His children...it just amazes me, so I'm thankful for that class, those ladies, and for this passage.
Psalm 8 (New International Version)
For the director of music. According to gittith [a].
A psalm of David.
1 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
You have set your glory
above the heavens.
2 From the lips of children and infants
you have ordained praise [b]
because of your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger.
3 When I consider your heavens,
the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars,
which you have set in place,
4 what is man that you are mindful of him,
the son of man that you care for him?
5 You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings [c]
and crowned him with glory and honor.
6 You made him ruler over the works of your hands;
you put everything under his feet:
7 all flocks and herds,
and the beasts of the field,
8 the birds of the air,
and the fish of the sea,
all that swim the paths of the seas.
9 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
I was reading Psalm 8 this past week and all in my Bible around this passage I have lots of notes and other scripture references. I first really studied this passage back in college in a women's Sunday school class at the church I attended. Mostly, the class was made up of women who were older than me, I was one of just a couple college age women in the class. But the wisdom these ladies had to offer was invaluable- so was the teaching I got from the Bible. What stands out to me most in Psalm 8 is how much God values each and every person. God is so mindful of His children...it just amazes me, so I'm thankful for that class, those ladies, and for this passage.
Psalm 8 (New International Version)
For the director of music. According to gittith [a].
A psalm of David.
1 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
You have set your glory
above the heavens.
2 From the lips of children and infants
you have ordained praise [b]
because of your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger.
3 When I consider your heavens,
the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars,
which you have set in place,
4 what is man that you are mindful of him,
the son of man that you care for him?
5 You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings [c]
and crowned him with glory and honor.
6 You made him ruler over the works of your hands;
you put everything under his feet:
7 all flocks and herds,
and the beasts of the field,
8 the birds of the air,
and the fish of the sea,
all that swim the paths of the seas.
9 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Parental Influence
Day 18 of 30:
I may have talked about this before, but it definitely warrants being mentioned again: I'm thankful for my parents and the way they raised me. I'm thankful for the positive examples they set for me over the years, as both individuals and as a married couple. I'm thankful that my husband also had positive role models in his parents. It's so easy to take for granted the life I've been given, especially one that did not entail tremendous amounts of hardship. I never had to worry about where I would sleep, if I would be able to eat, or anything like that. My parents took care of me and love me, and taught me things I needed to know. I really appreciate that. In the work that I do, I'm reminded daily how blessed I am and I know that no matter what happens, I do have God, and He will provide for my needs...and my husband, family, etc.
I may have talked about this before, but it definitely warrants being mentioned again: I'm thankful for my parents and the way they raised me. I'm thankful for the positive examples they set for me over the years, as both individuals and as a married couple. I'm thankful that my husband also had positive role models in his parents. It's so easy to take for granted the life I've been given, especially one that did not entail tremendous amounts of hardship. I never had to worry about where I would sleep, if I would be able to eat, or anything like that. My parents took care of me and love me, and taught me things I needed to know. I really appreciate that. In the work that I do, I'm reminded daily how blessed I am and I know that no matter what happens, I do have God, and He will provide for my needs...and my husband, family, etc.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Safety
Day 17 of 30:
While at work today a co-worker and I were taking several cases of water to a church in downtown Norfolk for a homeless event on Wednesday. On the way, while approaching a stoplight an HRT bus (local public transportation system)was attempting to turn left. A truck several car lengths ahead of us tried to cut the bus off, and as a result hit the bus, but then cut back over to the lane going straight. I'm thankful that my co-worker and I were safe, and that we were not further up in traffic. I'm thankful too that we were able to see the plate number for the truck so that the incident can be reported.
While at work today a co-worker and I were taking several cases of water to a church in downtown Norfolk for a homeless event on Wednesday. On the way, while approaching a stoplight an HRT bus (local public transportation system)was attempting to turn left. A truck several car lengths ahead of us tried to cut the bus off, and as a result hit the bus, but then cut back over to the lane going straight. I'm thankful that my co-worker and I were safe, and that we were not further up in traffic. I'm thankful too that we were able to see the plate number for the truck so that the incident can be reported.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Randomness
Day 16 of 30:
Today's going to be a little different in my sharing of things I'm thankful for. There are several random, small things that I'm thankful for (often things that happen daily or that I use often) so today I'm just going to make a short list.
*a washer and dryer in our apt...no longer do I have to drag my laundry somewhere with a pocket full of quarters.
*the technology that allows me to chat online with friends who don't live anywhere close to me (today I talked with my friend who lives in Africa)
*getting to go to church with Howie
*K-love radio
Today's going to be a little different in my sharing of things I'm thankful for. There are several random, small things that I'm thankful for (often things that happen daily or that I use often) so today I'm just going to make a short list.
*a washer and dryer in our apt...no longer do I have to drag my laundry somewhere with a pocket full of quarters.
*the technology that allows me to chat online with friends who don't live anywhere close to me (today I talked with my friend who lives in Africa)
*getting to go to church with Howie
*K-love radio
Saturday, July 24, 2010
A day at the beach
Day 15 of 30:
Howie had today off from work, so we went down to the Outer Banks. It's not too far of a drive from where we live, and it's full of great memories, which is why I'm thankful for the Outer Banks today. It was where Howie and I had one of our first dates and it's where we go a couple times a year, just for a different beach scene. I also have a lot of great college memories of the beaches in NC. My good friend Angie and I'd go sometimes, and we had a couple sneak days there while at RBC. I'm from NC so I'm partial anyway to their beaches compared to VA's beaches, but these beaches really are beautiful. So I'm thankful for the memories of the Outer Banks and for this beautiful stretch of land that God's given to the great state of NC.
Howie had today off from work, so we went down to the Outer Banks. It's not too far of a drive from where we live, and it's full of great memories, which is why I'm thankful for the Outer Banks today. It was where Howie and I had one of our first dates and it's where we go a couple times a year, just for a different beach scene. I also have a lot of great college memories of the beaches in NC. My good friend Angie and I'd go sometimes, and we had a couple sneak days there while at RBC. I'm from NC so I'm partial anyway to their beaches compared to VA's beaches, but these beaches really are beautiful. So I'm thankful for the memories of the Outer Banks and for this beautiful stretch of land that God's given to the great state of NC.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Air Conditioning
Day 14 of 30:
Today the thing I'm thankful for is very simple- air conditioning. It's in the high 90's, but the heat index is 112. Therefore, I'm extremely thankful to have a home with air conditioning. Enough said.
Today the thing I'm thankful for is very simple- air conditioning. It's in the high 90's, but the heat index is 112. Therefore, I'm extremely thankful to have a home with air conditioning. Enough said.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Where everybody knows your name
Day 13 of 30:
Each week there's usually one evening I have to work late. On those days I typically go to the Y to workout in morning instead of going after work. The woman who works the front desk in the mornings took the time to learn my name. I know that's really not a huge deal, but considering the number of people who come in and out of the Y daily, I appreciate that she's taken time to learn who I am. And not only that, she greets me, with a smile, by name each and every time I walk through the doors. And when I leave, I'm told goodbye, by name each and every time. I really appreciate that. I'm thankful for the customer service, but mostly just for the kindness and consideration this woman shares with me. I've let her know that I appreciate it and she says it's no big deal, but I think it is.
Each week there's usually one evening I have to work late. On those days I typically go to the Y to workout in morning instead of going after work. The woman who works the front desk in the mornings took the time to learn my name. I know that's really not a huge deal, but considering the number of people who come in and out of the Y daily, I appreciate that she's taken time to learn who I am. And not only that, she greets me, with a smile, by name each and every time I walk through the doors. And when I leave, I'm told goodbye, by name each and every time. I really appreciate that. I'm thankful for the customer service, but mostly just for the kindness and consideration this woman shares with me. I've let her know that I appreciate it and she says it's no big deal, but I think it is.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Philippians 1:9-11
Day 12 of 30:
Though I haven't not read Philippians 1:9-11 recently (recent being within the last week or so), it keeps coming to mind today. I absolutely love this passage. In the verses, you can read a prayer Paul wrote for the church in Philippi. He starts with thanksgiving by thanking God for the people. But then Paul goes deeper, reaching the soul of the matter. He prays for their walk with God, and for their hearts. I'm thankful for this prayer, simply because this is one I have for my life. I want my love to abound and to have discernment. I want to live a life that lets God know just how I feel about Him.
Here it is. Enjoy.
Philippians 1:9-11 (NIV)
9And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.
Also, because I love the wording and phrasing of this passage in the Message version:
9-11So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover's life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.
Though I haven't not read Philippians 1:9-11 recently (recent being within the last week or so), it keeps coming to mind today. I absolutely love this passage. In the verses, you can read a prayer Paul wrote for the church in Philippi. He starts with thanksgiving by thanking God for the people. But then Paul goes deeper, reaching the soul of the matter. He prays for their walk with God, and for their hearts. I'm thankful for this prayer, simply because this is one I have for my life. I want my love to abound and to have discernment. I want to live a life that lets God know just how I feel about Him.
Here it is. Enjoy.
Philippians 1:9-11 (NIV)
9And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, 10so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless until the day of Christ, 11filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christ—to the glory and praise of God.
Also, because I love the wording and phrasing of this passage in the Message version:
9-11So this is my prayer: that your love will flourish and that you will not only love much but well. Learn to love appropriately. You need to use your head and test your feelings so that your love is sincere and intelligent, not sentimental gush. Live a lover's life, circumspect and exemplary, a life Jesus will be proud of: bountiful in fruits from the soul, making Jesus Christ attractive to all, getting everyone involved in the glory and praise of God.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Cooking
Day 11 of 30:
I'm so thankful for the ability to cook/bake. I really enjoy it- more so in recent years. Otherwise Howie and I would have really boring meals all the time. Instead, I like experimenting with recipes (I thank my dad for that because he would do that when I was little sometimes) and trying new things. I'll try things just for the sake of trying a new recipe, especially foods that normally come already prepared (bagels, granola bars, tortillas). But I'm thankful for the people over the years who have taught me how to cook/bake, and who have shown me how much fun it can be. I love that I can use the ability I have to cook/bake to show my husband that I care for him. I enjoy using those skills to make fun, random things to take into work (we cook for lunches during staff meetings sometimes).
Following a recipe is much like following God. He gives us direction and guidance through His Word, but we do have the ability to stray away- free will. In a book I was reading this morning* the author was talking with his brother about prayer and God, and says (about his brother), "A life without prayer is something I couldn't imagine. In no small way, I'd been depending on prayer for as long as he'd been avoiding it." When cooking/baking, there are certain things we cannot avoid- like not using yeast to make bread raise. Prayer should be like that- ABSOLUTELY necessary. Not using certain elements of a recipe will completely change the outcome, sometimes for good and sometimes for bad. But with God, we need to completely rely on Him through prayers, reading His Word and not straying from the life He's given us.
*Three Weeks With My Brother by Nicholas and Micah Sparks (a memoir of a three week around the world adventure the two brothers took together)
I'm so thankful for the ability to cook/bake. I really enjoy it- more so in recent years. Otherwise Howie and I would have really boring meals all the time. Instead, I like experimenting with recipes (I thank my dad for that because he would do that when I was little sometimes) and trying new things. I'll try things just for the sake of trying a new recipe, especially foods that normally come already prepared (bagels, granola bars, tortillas). But I'm thankful for the people over the years who have taught me how to cook/bake, and who have shown me how much fun it can be. I love that I can use the ability I have to cook/bake to show my husband that I care for him. I enjoy using those skills to make fun, random things to take into work (we cook for lunches during staff meetings sometimes).
Following a recipe is much like following God. He gives us direction and guidance through His Word, but we do have the ability to stray away- free will. In a book I was reading this morning* the author was talking with his brother about prayer and God, and says (about his brother), "A life without prayer is something I couldn't imagine. In no small way, I'd been depending on prayer for as long as he'd been avoiding it." When cooking/baking, there are certain things we cannot avoid- like not using yeast to make bread raise. Prayer should be like that- ABSOLUTELY necessary. Not using certain elements of a recipe will completely change the outcome, sometimes for good and sometimes for bad. But with God, we need to completely rely on Him through prayers, reading His Word and not straying from the life He's given us.
*Three Weeks With My Brother by Nicholas and Micah Sparks (a memoir of a three week around the world adventure the two brothers took together)
Monday, July 19, 2010
Pandora.com
Day 10 of 30:
I really enjoy music. Christian worship music is my absolute favorite. Especially Chris Tomlin. Therefore, the Chris Tomlin station on pandora.com simply makes my work days better. I love the constant flow of music for hours on end of just worship. Just people loving the Lord in song. Being able to listen to music that's glorifying God lightens my heart. It reminds me that things could always be worse, but that things are always always always better with the Lord.
I really enjoy music. Christian worship music is my absolute favorite. Especially Chris Tomlin. Therefore, the Chris Tomlin station on pandora.com simply makes my work days better. I love the constant flow of music for hours on end of just worship. Just people loving the Lord in song. Being able to listen to music that's glorifying God lightens my heart. It reminds me that things could always be worse, but that things are always always always better with the Lord.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
Sunday School Part 2
Day 9 of 30:
Once again this week I'm thankful for our Sunday school class. This time however, it's not the people I'm more thankful for, it's the lesson we had. Today we talked about righteous anger, what makes God angry, and how we can respond to anger we feel. It was truly fitting. I was feeling sad before church, still just tired and frustrated from events that have happened over the last several weeks at work. I've felt angry at work, over a lot of different things. I don't like those feelings and I don't like how I've let it impact the joy I felt towards my job. So I'm thankful for today's lesson. God used it to help me have better perspective and understand. It opened my eyes a bit more. I'm thankful. I admit, I'm really not looking forward to work tomorrow. Or the coming days/weeks. But I know things will work out and improve. Starting with my attitude.
Once again this week I'm thankful for our Sunday school class. This time however, it's not the people I'm more thankful for, it's the lesson we had. Today we talked about righteous anger, what makes God angry, and how we can respond to anger we feel. It was truly fitting. I was feeling sad before church, still just tired and frustrated from events that have happened over the last several weeks at work. I've felt angry at work, over a lot of different things. I don't like those feelings and I don't like how I've let it impact the joy I felt towards my job. So I'm thankful for today's lesson. God used it to help me have better perspective and understand. It opened my eyes a bit more. I'm thankful. I admit, I'm really not looking forward to work tomorrow. Or the coming days/weeks. But I know things will work out and improve. Starting with my attitude.
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Saturday Mornings
Day 8 of 30:
I'm so thankful for Saturday mornings when I wake up early (practically an everyday occurence, I'm not one to sleep in- ever) and curl up with a good book. I love diving into other worlds, societies, and learning. I don't care if it's fiction, non-fiction, it doesn't matter. I just love to read. And to make things even better, the newest book by my favorite author has recently been released and it's available for pick up today at the library! I'll likely read the whole thing, in one sitting, in just a few hours. And I'll love every minute of it. I'm thankful for the ability to read. But more importantly, I'm thankful for God's word, a book that never ever gets old, is never out of date or irrelevant. Thank goodness because my life is much better with this special book in it.
I'm so thankful for Saturday mornings when I wake up early (practically an everyday occurence, I'm not one to sleep in- ever) and curl up with a good book. I love diving into other worlds, societies, and learning. I don't care if it's fiction, non-fiction, it doesn't matter. I just love to read. And to make things even better, the newest book by my favorite author has recently been released and it's available for pick up today at the library! I'll likely read the whole thing, in one sitting, in just a few hours. And I'll love every minute of it. I'm thankful for the ability to read. But more importantly, I'm thankful for God's word, a book that never ever gets old, is never out of date or irrelevant. Thank goodness because my life is much better with this special book in it.
Finally, a good day at work
Day 7 of 30:
Today I got to work. I mean, sit at my desk and get things done that were job specific. I didn't spend time mowing, weeding, or cleaning. I got to do case management, catch up on paperwork/filing. I got to do some planning ahead for upcoming client stuff. I found an article about following up with clients once they exit transitional housing. That made it a productive day. A helpful day. A much needed work day that just hasn't happened all week long. I really needed it. So I'm thankful that I had the day. I came in early, left early, and got to spend my extra afternoon time with my husband, so that made it even better.
Today I got to work. I mean, sit at my desk and get things done that were job specific. I didn't spend time mowing, weeding, or cleaning. I got to do case management, catch up on paperwork/filing. I got to do some planning ahead for upcoming client stuff. I found an article about following up with clients once they exit transitional housing. That made it a productive day. A helpful day. A much needed work day that just hasn't happened all week long. I really needed it. So I'm thankful that I had the day. I came in early, left early, and got to spend my extra afternoon time with my husband, so that made it even better.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
An evening with the kids
Day 6 of 30:
Today was a much better day at work. I got to talk with a really good friend online. I worked late tonight which meant I got to spend the morning with my husband. I'm thankful for all of that. But tonight work, during one of our weekly workshops for the clients, it was my turn to be with the kids. Sometimes they get a little crazy and loud, but what kids don't? Tonight's group held 5 kids, ranging from a 1 1/2 year old to 6 years. They were a fun bunch and story time turned out pretty great. We read one of my favorite children's book (Jamaica Louise James) and had some activities with it. They loved the story and the activities that followed. It's unusual that things went over as well as they did- hence the thankfulness. But what made me smile the most, laugh the most, and just be filled with joy, was that as the kids came into the office, they came running, arms wide open, right over to me and gave me hugs- all 5 of them. I love it! This happens quite often, and it's only been in the last few weeks that the youngest kid has started joining the older ones in the run/hug activity. These kids brighten my days and bring me joy. I'm thankful that I have the opportunity to play a role in their life, however long that time ends up being.
Today was a much better day at work. I got to talk with a really good friend online. I worked late tonight which meant I got to spend the morning with my husband. I'm thankful for all of that. But tonight work, during one of our weekly workshops for the clients, it was my turn to be with the kids. Sometimes they get a little crazy and loud, but what kids don't? Tonight's group held 5 kids, ranging from a 1 1/2 year old to 6 years. They were a fun bunch and story time turned out pretty great. We read one of my favorite children's book (Jamaica Louise James) and had some activities with it. They loved the story and the activities that followed. It's unusual that things went over as well as they did- hence the thankfulness. But what made me smile the most, laugh the most, and just be filled with joy, was that as the kids came into the office, they came running, arms wide open, right over to me and gave me hugs- all 5 of them. I love it! This happens quite often, and it's only been in the last few weeks that the youngest kid has started joining the older ones in the run/hug activity. These kids brighten my days and bring me joy. I'm thankful that I have the opportunity to play a role in their life, however long that time ends up being.
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Lawn Care and the Y (and my Wonderful Husband!)
Day 5 of 30:
Today, I am sooooooooooo thankful for my husband. He used his day off from work to come with me to work at 6:30 am b/c it was my day to mow the grass (we have to upkeep our grass/weeds at work). A co-worker and I were on the schedule to mow today, and Howie came to help us. We got done MUCH quicker than expected because of Howie's help. But I'm also thankful for this particular co-worker too. Let's just say she lives up to her name (Joy) and is an answer to the prayers Howie and I prayed while I was job searching. She's definitely a blessing in a job that at times can be incredibly challenging. Another thing to be thankful for? When you do lawn care you get to leave early...so I got to spend the whole day with my husband. I loved it!
While this isn't something I'm thankful for (yet...I'm really working on finding the good) it's been a very hard week at work. Today was a nice break from being in the office doing my normal stuff. But because of the recent stuff at work, I've been feeling more stressed and often exercising at the Y helps me feel better. It's a great time to watch tv (we don't have cable so I at times, will strategically plan my trips to watch my favorite shows) and/or listen to a mix of some of my favorite songs. God definitely has given me the discipline I asked for to stick with the Y. Exercising helps me sleep better, feel better, and it's a great way to get my energy/stress out.
Today even had a "cherry on top" to make it even better- I can log my push-mowing time in my Y stuff which means I got points for mowing at work. Not too bad.
Today, I am sooooooooooo thankful for my husband. He used his day off from work to come with me to work at 6:30 am b/c it was my day to mow the grass (we have to upkeep our grass/weeds at work). A co-worker and I were on the schedule to mow today, and Howie came to help us. We got done MUCH quicker than expected because of Howie's help. But I'm also thankful for this particular co-worker too. Let's just say she lives up to her name (Joy) and is an answer to the prayers Howie and I prayed while I was job searching. She's definitely a blessing in a job that at times can be incredibly challenging. Another thing to be thankful for? When you do lawn care you get to leave early...so I got to spend the whole day with my husband. I loved it!
While this isn't something I'm thankful for (yet...I'm really working on finding the good) it's been a very hard week at work. Today was a nice break from being in the office doing my normal stuff. But because of the recent stuff at work, I've been feeling more stressed and often exercising at the Y helps me feel better. It's a great time to watch tv (we don't have cable so I at times, will strategically plan my trips to watch my favorite shows) and/or listen to a mix of some of my favorite songs. God definitely has given me the discipline I asked for to stick with the Y. Exercising helps me sleep better, feel better, and it's a great way to get my energy/stress out.
Today even had a "cherry on top" to make it even better- I can log my push-mowing time in my Y stuff which means I got points for mowing at work. Not too bad.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
My Husband
Day 4 of 30:
I'm just so thankful, everyday for the husband God gave me. Today (and the last several days) have been hard at work. More emotionally draining than anything else. Being in the social work field does not equate to easy, non-challenging jobs. So it's nice to be able to call Howie during the day or to know he'll be with me at home after work to listen and hold me if I'm upset or sad. I'm thankful that Howie loves the Lord and that He loves me. Even when I don't deserve it. I'm also just thankful that today is over. Tomorrow will hopefully be better at work.
I'm just so thankful, everyday for the husband God gave me. Today (and the last several days) have been hard at work. More emotionally draining than anything else. Being in the social work field does not equate to easy, non-challenging jobs. So it's nice to be able to call Howie during the day or to know he'll be with me at home after work to listen and hold me if I'm upset or sad. I'm thankful that Howie loves the Lord and that He loves me. Even when I don't deserve it. I'm also just thankful that today is over. Tomorrow will hopefully be better at work.
Monday, July 12, 2010
Responsibility
Day 3 of 30:
I don't think I've ever said that I'm thankful for responsibility. But I am. I'm thankful for acts of responsibility, people that teach others to be responsible, and for people who choose to act responsibly. I'm thankful that I had parents who taught me how to act responsibly, and for God's word which explains many ways in which we are to act responsibly.
I don't think I've ever said that I'm thankful for responsibility. But I am. I'm thankful for acts of responsibility, people that teach others to be responsible, and for people who choose to act responsibly. I'm thankful that I had parents who taught me how to act responsibly, and for God's word which explains many ways in which we are to act responsibly.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Sunday School
Day 2 of 30:
I'm very thankful for the Sunday School class Howie and I have been going to for over a year now. It took us a long time to find a class at church with people that we fit in with. It took us a long time to find a group of people who get excited about studying God's word, were sincere in praying for each other, were sincere in their encouragement, and who welcomed us. Not that other classes we went to did not have these things, but this was the group in which we felt most comfortable- this is the group that welcomes us in such a way that we don't mind sharing what's on our hearts/minds. This is a group that I think God for leading us to.
I'm very thankful for the Sunday School class Howie and I have been going to for over a year now. It took us a long time to find a class at church with people that we fit in with. It took us a long time to find a group of people who get excited about studying God's word, were sincere in praying for each other, were sincere in their encouragement, and who welcomed us. Not that other classes we went to did not have these things, but this was the group in which we felt most comfortable- this is the group that welcomes us in such a way that we don't mind sharing what's on our hearts/minds. This is a group that I think God for leading us to.
Saturday, July 10, 2010
The Start of Something New
Someone I know from college is using her blog to daily account for what she's grateful for. I read it quite often and feel challenged to do the same thing. I'd like to use the next 30 days to be more purposeful in my thankfulness and gratefulness for all the things that God does in my life and for those in my life every day. It's so easy to get caught up in what's bad or hard instead of being thankful for what is good.
So here we go!
Day 1 of 30:
Today I'm thankful for "fun mail" and the people who send the mail. Yesterday for example, we got Netflix in the mail. That's always good. I'm thankful for the entertainment we get through Netflix. We got the reimbursement check for my eye exam (my insurance, at least for vision care, does reimbursements only). I'm thankful that this process didn't take as long as I thought it would. But mostly I'm thankful for the two cards I got in the mail.
One is from my good friend who's living in Africa. Not only did it have a cool-looking triangular stamp, but it was just a sweet note from a friend I rarely see. She even wrote "I miss you" for me in Arabic. I'm just so thankful for my friend and her love of God. She inspires me in my own walk with God and I'm thankful for the way God has used her in my life in the 8 years we've known each other.
The other card I got was from another good friend who came to visit Howie and I last weekend. It was a simple, but very sweet thank you note. We had a wonderful time having her visit and it meant a lot to me that she'd take time out of her day to express her appreciation. What makes last week's visit so special is that despite having known this friend for 10 years, we've never spent more than an hour or so at a time hanging out. Three days was such a treat with this God-loving friend of mine.
I'm just thankful to have friends like these in my life. I'm thankful that my husband has now had opportunities to get to know both of them, and they get to know him.
So here we go!
Day 1 of 30:
Today I'm thankful for "fun mail" and the people who send the mail. Yesterday for example, we got Netflix in the mail. That's always good. I'm thankful for the entertainment we get through Netflix. We got the reimbursement check for my eye exam (my insurance, at least for vision care, does reimbursements only). I'm thankful that this process didn't take as long as I thought it would. But mostly I'm thankful for the two cards I got in the mail.
One is from my good friend who's living in Africa. Not only did it have a cool-looking triangular stamp, but it was just a sweet note from a friend I rarely see. She even wrote "I miss you" for me in Arabic. I'm just so thankful for my friend and her love of God. She inspires me in my own walk with God and I'm thankful for the way God has used her in my life in the 8 years we've known each other.
The other card I got was from another good friend who came to visit Howie and I last weekend. It was a simple, but very sweet thank you note. We had a wonderful time having her visit and it meant a lot to me that she'd take time out of her day to express her appreciation. What makes last week's visit so special is that despite having known this friend for 10 years, we've never spent more than an hour or so at a time hanging out. Three days was such a treat with this God-loving friend of mine.
I'm just thankful to have friends like these in my life. I'm thankful that my husband has now had opportunities to get to know both of them, and they get to know him.
Monday, June 21, 2010
A little of this & that
It's been awhile since I wrote anything, mostly because I wasn't sure what to write about. So I figured I'd just some updating and thought sharing for anyone out there who actually reads this.
Howie and I've gone to the beach several times already this year to swim, and it's been a lot of fun. In a few weeks I have a friend coming to visit and we're going to go out on the Rudee Rocket for the third year in a row- it's a lot of fun and we really enjoy it. (http://www.rudeerocket.com/)
Last weekend I went home for a quick overnight visit to see my parents. That was fun, quick as it was. This was the first night I'd been away from my husband since we got married (which will be two years this coming August 2) and I'll admit I cried about this- a few times.
I've been experimenting in the kitchen:
Homemade bagels (http://hubpages.com/hub/Homemade_bagel_recipe_Make_great_nadrolled_water_bagels__its_as_easy_as_baking_a_loaf_of_bread)
Homemade tortillas (http://www.tasteofhome.com/Recipes/Homemade-Tortillas)
Work has been going well. It's hard sometimes, when I can see the potential my clients have, yet they're making choices that often set them back. The whole take a step forward, but two steps back concept. It's frustrating and overwhelming. I'm thankful I had a vacation day last Friday, and today, because it was a much needed respite from the office.
We did have baby bird hatch in the next outside of the office at work, unfortunately an animal got to them. But, being the proud "office parents" that we were, I have a picture of our cute little birdies to share:
I think that's about it. Oh yes, to update on a previous post about learning how to use the weight machines at the Y, I have indeed lifted enough now to have lifted an elephant! Actually, not just one, but according to my most fitlinxx totals, I've lifted enough to have lifted SEVEN ELEPHANTS!
Howie and I've gone to the beach several times already this year to swim, and it's been a lot of fun. In a few weeks I have a friend coming to visit and we're going to go out on the Rudee Rocket for the third year in a row- it's a lot of fun and we really enjoy it. (http://www.rudeerocket.com/)
Last weekend I went home for a quick overnight visit to see my parents. That was fun, quick as it was. This was the first night I'd been away from my husband since we got married (which will be two years this coming August 2) and I'll admit I cried about this- a few times.
I've been experimenting in the kitchen:
Homemade bagels (http://hubpages.com/hub/Homemade_bagel_recipe_Make_great_nadrolled_water_bagels__its_as_easy_as_baking_a_loaf_of_bread)
Homemade tortillas (http://www.tasteofhome.com/Recipes/Homemade-Tortillas)
Work has been going well. It's hard sometimes, when I can see the potential my clients have, yet they're making choices that often set them back. The whole take a step forward, but two steps back concept. It's frustrating and overwhelming. I'm thankful I had a vacation day last Friday, and today, because it was a much needed respite from the office.
We did have baby bird hatch in the next outside of the office at work, unfortunately an animal got to them. But, being the proud "office parents" that we were, I have a picture of our cute little birdies to share:
I think that's about it. Oh yes, to update on a previous post about learning how to use the weight machines at the Y, I have indeed lifted enough now to have lifted an elephant! Actually, not just one, but according to my most fitlinxx totals, I've lifted enough to have lifted SEVEN ELEPHANTS!
Monday, May 31, 2010
H.O.P.E. Challenge 2010
Today marks the first day of a summer long fitness challenge that we're doing at work. We're doing a 12 week fitness challenge for the clients and staff that will put an emphasis on low-impact exercising and overall health & wellness. A co-worker will lead interested clients and staff in "boot camp" three days a week and during case management I'll spend a few weeks focusing on health and nutrition. I'm pretty excited. So much so in fact, that I became more than a little convicted about my lack of interest in exercising.
I've recently re-joined the YMCA and have starting exercising more. I really don't enjoy it, but as the weeks have passed I find that I don't mind going as much and at times, even look forward to going. If only because each cardio machine at the branch I go to has a tv on it and I can watch cable, something we don't have at home.
My newest venture at the Y has been the weight machines/equipment. I've always felt intimidated by them and just avoided them. Despite Howie telling me how much I'd enjoy it, I just didn't bother. Last week though I finally got up the nerve to sign up for a fitquest appointment to get my number to login to the machines and to be shown how to use them. What I found was that I actually enjoy it. I admit I'm still slightly intimidated by them, but it's better than before. Using them though, makes me feel strong. It's a relatively dummy proof system and when you log out at the end of your workout, you get a summary of how many total pounds you've lifted. Yesterday, I lifted 4,480. That makes me feel like I'm incredibly strong.
Maybe one day I'll lift enough to make the pounds equivalent to the size of an elephant...
I've recently re-joined the YMCA and have starting exercising more. I really don't enjoy it, but as the weeks have passed I find that I don't mind going as much and at times, even look forward to going. If only because each cardio machine at the branch I go to has a tv on it and I can watch cable, something we don't have at home.
My newest venture at the Y has been the weight machines/equipment. I've always felt intimidated by them and just avoided them. Despite Howie telling me how much I'd enjoy it, I just didn't bother. Last week though I finally got up the nerve to sign up for a fitquest appointment to get my number to login to the machines and to be shown how to use them. What I found was that I actually enjoy it. I admit I'm still slightly intimidated by them, but it's better than before. Using them though, makes me feel strong. It's a relatively dummy proof system and when you log out at the end of your workout, you get a summary of how many total pounds you've lifted. Yesterday, I lifted 4,480. That makes me feel like I'm incredibly strong.
Maybe one day I'll lift enough to make the pounds equivalent to the size of an elephant...
O.S.G.F.
What's an O.S.G.F. you ask? It's an "oh so good friend." Someone I knew from college would use that term and I really like it. Recently I got to spend time with one of my O.S.G.F's. Angie's been living in Africa for the last year and a half, and came home for a short vacation. It was nice being able to spend time with her. We were able to head down to RBC (while I realize it's officially MACU now, it'll always be RBC to me) to visit with some other great people, specifically Mrs. Guthrie. It was just an all around great day, and I thought I'd share a pic of two of my favorite people.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Work Anniversary
Today marks one year of my working for The Salvation Army H.O.P.E. Village Program. It's been a great year. I've learned a lot, and while the honeymoon phase of work has long since passed, I still thoroughly enjoy the job. I love that God has given me a job that allows me to combine so many of the things I'm interested in. In just over a month we'll be able to celebrate having had clients for a year- now that will be exciting!
This past year I've finally started feeling like a professional. I am using my hard earned degrees and am helping both women and children get a fresh start in life. I've learned how to be an advocate- for someone other than myself. I've learned how to ask better questions and how to dig deeper to get the resources my clients need. And I've had moments of great humility, as I realize the depth of sacrifices my clients have made. And I'm just so proud of the hard work my clients are putting in.
Then there are my co-workers. In a job like this, you have to be able to joke and play. It simply makes work better and it makes us better workers. Add this to the fact that we're in a brand new office building, that has a few kinks to work out. Such as the front (and only) door getting stuck, inevitably leaving some of us locked inside (and outside)- on three different occasions. We've celebrated everyone's birthday by having birthday cakes (or donuts for me) with candles, and trashing desks (my desk is rather fragile, so I got an office full of balloons). And my desk has broken three times as well. It's rigged up pretty well right now, but I always think it's funny when it breaks.
Here's to another year!
Birthday Celebration...I walked in to 75 balloons all over the floor. I kept them there all day...at this point, the clients were still new and didn't know us well enough to think anything other than the fact that we were crazy.
This was the first time the door got stuck. Two were locked inside, and I got locked outside, which resorted in me climbing in through the window. Despite the fact that it was cold outside, I found the whole thing hilarious.
This is the second time the desk broke. It's the piece that rolls out and holds the keyboard that falls off each time. I'm able to create a makeshift desk without too many problems. Just like the door, I actually find this pretty funny too.
This past year I've finally started feeling like a professional. I am using my hard earned degrees and am helping both women and children get a fresh start in life. I've learned how to be an advocate- for someone other than myself. I've learned how to ask better questions and how to dig deeper to get the resources my clients need. And I've had moments of great humility, as I realize the depth of sacrifices my clients have made. And I'm just so proud of the hard work my clients are putting in.
Then there are my co-workers. In a job like this, you have to be able to joke and play. It simply makes work better and it makes us better workers. Add this to the fact that we're in a brand new office building, that has a few kinks to work out. Such as the front (and only) door getting stuck, inevitably leaving some of us locked inside (and outside)- on three different occasions. We've celebrated everyone's birthday by having birthday cakes (or donuts for me) with candles, and trashing desks (my desk is rather fragile, so I got an office full of balloons). And my desk has broken three times as well. It's rigged up pretty well right now, but I always think it's funny when it breaks.
Here's to another year!
Birthday Celebration...I walked in to 75 balloons all over the floor. I kept them there all day...at this point, the clients were still new and didn't know us well enough to think anything other than the fact that we were crazy.
This was the first time the door got stuck. Two were locked inside, and I got locked outside, which resorted in me climbing in through the window. Despite the fact that it was cold outside, I found the whole thing hilarious.
This is the second time the desk broke. It's the piece that rolls out and holds the keyboard that falls off each time. I'm able to create a makeshift desk without too many problems. Just like the door, I actually find this pretty funny too.
Weekend Trip
This past weekend Howie and I got to go to Kentucky Christian University to watch Howie's sister Heather graduate. It was a fun weekend, complete with a visit to a beautiful lake, helping Heather move into her first apartment and getting to see Howie's parents and mine (and my grandparents) for Mother's day weekend. After the graduation festivities we headed back down 64 to my grandparent's house. We spent the night there, and my parents were there as well. I also got to play with my younger cousins. We haven't done that in a really long time. It was just a really nice weekend overall and I'm thankful that we were able to get away.
Here are a few of my favorite pics from the weekend:
Here are a few of my favorite pics from the weekend:
Saturday, May 1, 2010
Sunrise, Sunset
Yesterday Howie and I went to the VB oceanfront for the first time this year, and it was so much fun. We're not so much beach people (i.e. laying around in the sun for hours on end, actually getting into the water for more that 15 minutes or so), but we do enjoy going out to sit on the beach for a little while and walk around some. I find myself getting mesmerized by the waves. I think they're absolutely beautiful. I think waves are one of my favorite things that God created for us to enjoy. Waves, and sunsets. And sunrises. I'm thankful that God has allowed me to watch sunrises and sunsets over the years, in different cities I've lived, and also in countries I've visited. Sunrises are especially my favorite, because they bring in a new day, and new opportunities to not only serve God, but to enjoy God, and His goodness. They remind me of this passage in Lamentations 3:
22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him."
Some sunrises are just too beautiful not to share, so here are some of my favorites:
This is the view from my dorm room that I had all four years I was at MACU (RBC)
This is from a random weekend in grad school when my roommates and I had friends over and we got up early to see the sunrise:
This is from my birthday weekend this past year:
This sunrise is from the plane as my Grandma and I flew back from Australia a few years back:
This sunrise is in Edgartown, on Martha's Vinyard, where Howie and I went for our honeymoon:
Lastly, this is actually a sunset, but it's too beautiful not to share. This is from Jaco Beach in Costa Rica:
22 Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed,
for his compassions never fail.
23 They are new every morning;
great is your faithfulness.
24 I say to myself, "The LORD is my portion;
therefore I will wait for him."
Some sunrises are just too beautiful not to share, so here are some of my favorites:
This is the view from my dorm room that I had all four years I was at MACU (RBC)
This is from a random weekend in grad school when my roommates and I had friends over and we got up early to see the sunrise:
This is from my birthday weekend this past year:
This sunrise is from the plane as my Grandma and I flew back from Australia a few years back:
This sunrise is in Edgartown, on Martha's Vinyard, where Howie and I went for our honeymoon:
Lastly, this is actually a sunset, but it's too beautiful not to share. This is from Jaco Beach in Costa Rica:
Thursday, April 22, 2010
My Soapbox on Homelessness...read at your own risk
There are not that many things I'm passionate about outside of God/church, and my husband/family. But since I started working with the Salvation Army H.O.P.E. Village program May 11, 2009, I've found myself growing more and more passionate about helping those in need. It was one thing to serve as a short-term missionary in Venezuela. But this is completely different. It's ministry that is literally in my backyard. And yours too for that matter. No matter where you live.
Today I was helping with Chesapeake's Project Homeless Connect. Norfolk has them too and it's basically a one day, one-stop event, when those who are homeless can come in and get everything from a hot meal to housing resources, food stamp cards, childcare info, legal aid info, medical and dental screenings, haircuts, toiletry kits, clothing, bus passes....pretty much all the basic needs are met. As I spoke with potential clients and other local service providers, I realized just how excited I get when I share about our program. But I've also noticed over the last several months how worked up I get over certain things, one being housing.
The goal of our program is for clients to achieve affordable housing once they leave. In our opinion affordable housing involves finding an apt. or home to rent and if that means taking advantage of grant money the city has to help with the first month's rent, then that's okay. What we don't like to promote is section 8 or public housing. I know for some, that may be the only option. but I can get on quite the high horse about that, so for now I'll refrain. then there's permanent supportive housing...TERRIBLE! This option just seems to continue the cycle of homelessness and lack of effort on the client's part. That type of housing just seems to perpetuate a cycle of depending on others in such a way that you never learn how to handle life on your own. Some agencies in the area think we're ridiculous for not pushing our clients in that direction. It's almost as if we're being asked "how dare you push your clients into surviving on their own?" Is wanting more for my clients bad? Is telling them that success in housing is within their reach (while also teaching them the skills they need and that it takes work on their part to make it happen) so bad? I think not. I think we're doing just the right thing in teaching our clients, and in turn their children, what responsibility and hard work looks like. And that is what makes my job worthwhile. I know not every client will choose this path, but at least I can proudly say I work for a program that is, as our logo says, "growing great neighbors."
And I'm also extremely thankful to be working in Norfolk because the city recognizes homeless as a problem and has many services available to meet the needs of it's homeless residents. Some cities barely acknowledge homelessness, much less have services. But that's yet another soapbox.
I know this is long, but really quick, I'd like to share the good things HOPE Village has going on...
NO rent and NO utility costs for the 2 years a person is in the program; they have to attend our weekly workshops and weekly case management instead. Not a bad trade-off. Clients have to save 30% per paycheck and work towards paying off debt- so when they leave they'll have more money, less debt. We have an education coordinator, employment coordinator, children's services coordinator, and a substance abuse counselor on staff. We're pretty comprehensive with our services and refer our for things we're not able to do. Plus the houses are fully furnished, right down to forks and spoons and enough cleaning supplies to get someone started. We have weekly workshops ranging from self-defense and self-esteem to housing, finances, cooking, health/nutrition, and parenting. It's one awesome program!
Today I was helping with Chesapeake's Project Homeless Connect. Norfolk has them too and it's basically a one day, one-stop event, when those who are homeless can come in and get everything from a hot meal to housing resources, food stamp cards, childcare info, legal aid info, medical and dental screenings, haircuts, toiletry kits, clothing, bus passes....pretty much all the basic needs are met. As I spoke with potential clients and other local service providers, I realized just how excited I get when I share about our program. But I've also noticed over the last several months how worked up I get over certain things, one being housing.
The goal of our program is for clients to achieve affordable housing once they leave. In our opinion affordable housing involves finding an apt. or home to rent and if that means taking advantage of grant money the city has to help with the first month's rent, then that's okay. What we don't like to promote is section 8 or public housing. I know for some, that may be the only option. but I can get on quite the high horse about that, so for now I'll refrain. then there's permanent supportive housing...TERRIBLE! This option just seems to continue the cycle of homelessness and lack of effort on the client's part. That type of housing just seems to perpetuate a cycle of depending on others in such a way that you never learn how to handle life on your own. Some agencies in the area think we're ridiculous for not pushing our clients in that direction. It's almost as if we're being asked "how dare you push your clients into surviving on their own?" Is wanting more for my clients bad? Is telling them that success in housing is within their reach (while also teaching them the skills they need and that it takes work on their part to make it happen) so bad? I think not. I think we're doing just the right thing in teaching our clients, and in turn their children, what responsibility and hard work looks like. And that is what makes my job worthwhile. I know not every client will choose this path, but at least I can proudly say I work for a program that is, as our logo says, "growing great neighbors."
And I'm also extremely thankful to be working in Norfolk because the city recognizes homeless as a problem and has many services available to meet the needs of it's homeless residents. Some cities barely acknowledge homelessness, much less have services. But that's yet another soapbox.
I know this is long, but really quick, I'd like to share the good things HOPE Village has going on...
NO rent and NO utility costs for the 2 years a person is in the program; they have to attend our weekly workshops and weekly case management instead. Not a bad trade-off. Clients have to save 30% per paycheck and work towards paying off debt- so when they leave they'll have more money, less debt. We have an education coordinator, employment coordinator, children's services coordinator, and a substance abuse counselor on staff. We're pretty comprehensive with our services and refer our for things we're not able to do. Plus the houses are fully furnished, right down to forks and spoons and enough cleaning supplies to get someone started. We have weekly workshops ranging from self-defense and self-esteem to housing, finances, cooking, health/nutrition, and parenting. It's one awesome program!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Wisdom to be Teachable
In Sunday School today we continued our study in Proverbs. Today we talked about the difference between wisdom and foolishness, and we read several passages throughout Proverbs on the subject. One verse in particular really stuck out to me:
Proverbs 18:2
(NIV) A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions.
(ESV)A fool takes no pleasure in understanding,but only in expressing his opinion.
(NASB)A fool does not delight in understanding,But only in revealing his own mind.
(MSG)Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse;all they do is run off at the mouth.
(NLT)Fools have no interest in understanding;they only want to air their own opinions.
I think this verse really goes to show how careful we need to be when we speak, especially if we're sharing our own opinions. Yes, there are times when sharing your own opinions, etc. is needed, but there are ways to do it without being foolish.
We also talked about accountability and being able to accept someone's correction of us when we've acted foolishly. One person shared of asking for an opinion to find out areas to improve. Someone else shared about how they would be willing to accept correction more easily from someone whom they respect. Along with the above verse, our willingness to accept correction, and be teachable will help in the long run as we grow closer to God.
Anyway, these are just some rambling thoughts of mine, but I felt like sharing about class this morning.
Proverbs 18:2
(NIV) A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinions.
(ESV)A fool takes no pleasure in understanding,but only in expressing his opinion.
(NASB)A fool does not delight in understanding,But only in revealing his own mind.
(MSG)Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse;all they do is run off at the mouth.
(NLT)Fools have no interest in understanding;they only want to air their own opinions.
I think this verse really goes to show how careful we need to be when we speak, especially if we're sharing our own opinions. Yes, there are times when sharing your own opinions, etc. is needed, but there are ways to do it without being foolish.
We also talked about accountability and being able to accept someone's correction of us when we've acted foolishly. One person shared of asking for an opinion to find out areas to improve. Someone else shared about how they would be willing to accept correction more easily from someone whom they respect. Along with the above verse, our willingness to accept correction, and be teachable will help in the long run as we grow closer to God.
Anyway, these are just some rambling thoughts of mine, but I felt like sharing about class this morning.
Saturday, April 10, 2010
A Homemade Life
I have been an avid reader for as long as I can remember. Even as a kid, I'd pour through books faster than you'd believe. I'd go so far as to pack a flashlight for trips to my grandparents, so I could keep reading once it got dark. Even now, on the 10 hour trips to my in-laws, I have a bag full of books, and a flashlight, just in case I'm so absorbed into the book that I don't want to stop reading once it's dark. A little obsessive I'm sure, but that's me. I also read fast, which most people tend to think is fascinating. Once, en-route to OH I'm reading and my husband all of a sudden called out a number, say 12, and I ask why he did that. He says, 12 seconds, that's how long it took you to read the page before turning. And usually, one of the first questions my father-in-law asks me once we get to OH is "how many books did you read this time?" I'm definitely a bookworm.
However, lately, my interests have been expanding. I like to crochet now, and much to my dismay, I can't read and crochet at the same time. And while I don't cook/bake all the time, this is something that I've grown a stronger interest in, especially since I got married.
A few weeks ago while browsing with a friend who's also an avid reader, I saw the book "A Homemade Life" by Molly Wizenberg at B&N. So doing what I usually do, I go home, look the book up at the library, and go check it out. The book is awesome. It's cookbook meets life stories. I really enjoy reading about why all these recipes are so important to the author. Just good human interest, I suppose. But within a chapter of the book I was ready to throw on an apron and whip up something fabulous in the kitchen. I haven't done so yet, but I do have a few new things I'm planning on trying this weekend, and I'm excited about it.
So today I'd like to share the info on this book and the author's blog, so that maybe someone else can enjoy it like I have.
http://orangette.blogspot.com/
However, lately, my interests have been expanding. I like to crochet now, and much to my dismay, I can't read and crochet at the same time. And while I don't cook/bake all the time, this is something that I've grown a stronger interest in, especially since I got married.
A few weeks ago while browsing with a friend who's also an avid reader, I saw the book "A Homemade Life" by Molly Wizenberg at B&N. So doing what I usually do, I go home, look the book up at the library, and go check it out. The book is awesome. It's cookbook meets life stories. I really enjoy reading about why all these recipes are so important to the author. Just good human interest, I suppose. But within a chapter of the book I was ready to throw on an apron and whip up something fabulous in the kitchen. I haven't done so yet, but I do have a few new things I'm planning on trying this weekend, and I'm excited about it.
So today I'd like to share the info on this book and the author's blog, so that maybe someone else can enjoy it like I have.
http://orangette.blogspot.com/
Sunday, March 28, 2010
My new afghan
Back in the fall I decided, very randomly, on a Friday night that I wanted to learn to crochet. Howie went with me to Joann Fabrics and I bought some crochet hooks and yarn. I impatiently waited till the library opened the next day to pick up some "how to crochet books." Between those, YouTube, and some really sweet ladies at church, I picked up the hobby rather quickly. I made scarves and prayer shawls for church, but I had initially wanted to learn so I could make myself an afghan...well, three months after starting my afghan, it's finished. I crunched some numbers yesterday and I spent about 90 hours total working on this thing. That's LOT of time. It made me realize that I was spending so much more time on something that in the grand scheme does not make a lot of difference. I can honestly say I have not spent 90 hours over the past three months truly focusing on God, as I have the crocheting. I attend church, I pray, I have devos daily, Howie and I read the Bible and pray together, but I'm pretty sure it hasn't been 90 hours worth. This crocheting project of mine has opened my eyes to better prioritizing my time...God really should be getting more of me. I do believe this project has helped me sharpen my focus.
Psalm 8
1 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
You have set your glory
above the heavens.
2 From the lips of children and infants
you have ordained praise [b]
because of your enemies,
to silence the foe and the avenger.
3 When I consider your heavens,
the work of your fingers,
the moon and the stars,
which you have set in place,
4 what is man that you are mindful of him,
the son of man that you care for him?
5 You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings [c]
and crowned him with glory and honor.
6 You made him ruler over the works of your hands;
you put everything under his feet:
7 all flocks and herds,
and the beasts of the field,
8 the birds of the air,
and the fish of the sea,
all that swim the paths of the seas.
9 O LORD, our Lord,
how majestic is your name in all the earth!
** If God is so mindful of me, I should be so mindful of Him. **
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Otra dia, otra adventura
Recently I started reading the book Wild Goose Chase by Mark Batterson. Another book of his that I read, In a Pit with a Lion on a Snowy Day was amazing. God used that book in big ways while I was job searching. But back to Wild Goose Chase. So far, I've only read the first chapter, but in that Batterson shared a story that included the Spanish phrase "otra dia, otra adventura." In English, that's "another day, another adventure." I think life should be like that...each day can be a brand new adventure full of opportunities from God. My job is definitely like that. The coming weeks will be an adventure. Maybe not a fun one, but an adventure nonetheless. I really like this passage from Psalm 18:
28 You, O LORD, keep my lamp burning;
my God turns my darkness into light.
29 With your help I can advance against a troop [d] ;
with my God I can scale a wall.
30 As for God, his way is perfect;
the word of the LORD is flawless.
He is a shield
for all who take refuge in him.
I know that no matter the adventure, no matter what happens at work or wherever, my God is perfect and flawless, and He can use every adventure to bring something good.
28 You, O LORD, keep my lamp burning;
my God turns my darkness into light.
29 With your help I can advance against a troop [d] ;
with my God I can scale a wall.
30 As for God, his way is perfect;
the word of the LORD is flawless.
He is a shield
for all who take refuge in him.
I know that no matter the adventure, no matter what happens at work or wherever, my God is perfect and flawless, and He can use every adventure to bring something good.
Saturday, March 20, 2010
Here we go!
So here it is...my new blog. I figured, for as many as I read, I should contribute, because just maybe, there will be someone out there who's interested. We'll see what happens. It could very well end up being a passing interest that goes away quickly.
In honor of the first day of spring, I thought I'd share part of an email I sent to a good friend recently. For those who don't know, I am a case manager for a transitional housing program. Basically we provide free housing for up to two years for single women (with and without children) who are homeless and help them obtain employment, education, etc. in order to achieve permanent housing and other skills for self-sufficiency. It's an awesome job. It's almost been a year and while there are challenges, it's a perfect, God-ordained fit for me right now.
However, because I'm half the age of most of my clients, that can pose problems. And for some of them, the simple fact that I'm white is an issue. Howie said that, considering the nature of my clientele, I can't expect them to trust me in the few short months they've been here, when they've had a lifetime of living in survival mode. That's such a true statement. Especially since they've spent more years than I've been alive, cultivating a personality, behaviors, and skills, which more often than not includes lying, manipulation, and distrust. It just makes sense, but it's not okay, not really, in the grand scheme of things for me to get as bothered as I do by this, or for them to be so rude. But it's so like the seeds God talks about planting. I can plant seeds of success and hope, generosity and kindness to these women all day, every day during their two years here, but in the end, I may not ever see the changes. And that's okay. It just made me think about the people you meet anywhere you go. It takes time to build relationships and make changes. It takes time to plant seeds and for those seeds to grow. Maybe one day I'll get to see more fruit, but for now, I'm learning to be content with passing along the resources I have, and celebrating the milestones. Just this week two clients got jobs, two kids in the program celebrated birthdays in a HOUSE, not a shelter, and clients are working on their education. Here's to hoping you are able to see the joy in your life amidst planting seeds.
In honor of the first day of spring, I thought I'd share part of an email I sent to a good friend recently. For those who don't know, I am a case manager for a transitional housing program. Basically we provide free housing for up to two years for single women (with and without children) who are homeless and help them obtain employment, education, etc. in order to achieve permanent housing and other skills for self-sufficiency. It's an awesome job. It's almost been a year and while there are challenges, it's a perfect, God-ordained fit for me right now.
However, because I'm half the age of most of my clients, that can pose problems. And for some of them, the simple fact that I'm white is an issue. Howie said that, considering the nature of my clientele, I can't expect them to trust me in the few short months they've been here, when they've had a lifetime of living in survival mode. That's such a true statement. Especially since they've spent more years than I've been alive, cultivating a personality, behaviors, and skills, which more often than not includes lying, manipulation, and distrust. It just makes sense, but it's not okay, not really, in the grand scheme of things for me to get as bothered as I do by this, or for them to be so rude. But it's so like the seeds God talks about planting. I can plant seeds of success and hope, generosity and kindness to these women all day, every day during their two years here, but in the end, I may not ever see the changes. And that's okay. It just made me think about the people you meet anywhere you go. It takes time to build relationships and make changes. It takes time to plant seeds and for those seeds to grow. Maybe one day I'll get to see more fruit, but for now, I'm learning to be content with passing along the resources I have, and celebrating the milestones. Just this week two clients got jobs, two kids in the program celebrated birthdays in a HOUSE, not a shelter, and clients are working on their education. Here's to hoping you are able to see the joy in your life amidst planting seeds.
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